We give hope to families knowing that they can be rescued and survive any "Social Service Tsunami."

"Social Service Predator"

    Predators. We have equated this word with animals and people who do evil to children. We have seen how some social workers have moved from serving society into serving themselves.

This goes on across the country more often than people realize. Those that know this goes on are either too afraid to stand up, want their check, or it's another case.

If you are a parent and expose this, these "servants" will do all they can to push this back on you. They often "create" more problems. Then they tell the Judge or Magistrate "this is why we are here".

How do you know if you have run into a "Social Service Predator"? If this doesn't apply to you,then use this as a check and balance.

Grooming:

A social service predator will approach you as a friend wanting to help and assist you. You have been taught to trust them, because of their position. I mean Why not? They have assumed this role and earned this title?!? Ethics and integrity are in the job description.

You get close to them and then a superficial bond is formed and you have no idea of their
TRUE intent.  You have just been groomed by a "Social Service Predator".

    New problems appear when you speak up or don't agree with their assumptions. It all becomes your fault. You try to go to people of "trust" and  tell them what is going on. You get dismissed. It's either in your head or you must have done something to deserve this. People think "Not Social services", they are the good guys, well girls.

It becomes your fault.


Possible signs that you may have met, work with or ARE a "Social Service Predator".

   May this serve as an early warning of a "Social Service Tsunami", started by a "Social Services Predator".  We will help identify and navigate through the waters.

1. Their emotions get easily offended and then the case really becomes about "the best interest."

2. Refuses to take responsibility for actions and blames others or circumstances for their actions and attitude.

  • 3. A sense of entitlement This is their family and they are married to your spouse.

  • 4. Low self-esteem masked with confidence.

  • 5. Need for power and control

  • 6. Often female
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  • 7. Their Fathers weren't around or involved

  • 8. Their children are perfect

  • 9. Lack of empathy

  • 10 Inability to form intimate relationships with adults or families outside of work

  • 11. Lack objectivity

  • 12. History of abusing families.

  • 13. Hides behind "In the Best Interests"

  • 14. Perfect childhood,

  • 15. Perfect relationships

  • 16. Perfect marriage

  • 17. Deviant ethical behaviors and and openly lie.

  • 18. Have proven over and over and over again(dizzy yet) that "maternal instincts" don't apply to everyone.

  • 19. Confused and some often believe and act as though they gave life to the children or contributed the other chromosome.

  • 20. Fail to see good homes and label all homes in the same category

    • 21. Often offend where they won’t get caught , it can be before or after a visit.

    22. Often married or in relationships

    23. Offend when the "victim" is handy. Not always case workers, often law enforcement, some CASA workers and some GAL's

    24. Most attracted to single women or families going through a hard time.

    25. Terrified of the "FATHER FIGURE"

    26. Poor relationship with their OWN father or significant male.

    27. Good manipulators (sympathy is an integral part) Often they act like they really care, but are really looking for something to use against you.

    28. Overly self-indulgent

    29. Arrogant

    30. Objectify men

    31. Typically known as rationalizers, intellectuals, justifiers

    32. Great helpers there to lend a helping hand

    33. Prey on people in need

    34. Use stressful and vulnerable situations to get in — they find a need they can fill and they use that to get next to the victim in the family

    35. They often don't know how to handle Fathers and do all they can to remove that stability.

    36. Afraid to go to a jury trial and will do ANYTHING to make sure that doesn't happen, Your Public Defender is a part of that too.



    Does this sound like someone you have run into?

        We CANNOT say all case workers,social workers,GAL'S,Casa volunteers  and county attorney's are this way. But it is enough.