When you seek recognition and not significance, then anyone is a stepping stone to your insecure "achievements".

     Social Services can be viewed as an Oligarchy. An Oligarchy (Greek Ὀλιγαρχία, Oligarkhía) (oligocracy) is a form of government in which power effectively rests with a small elite segment of society distinguished by royal, wealth, intellectual, family, military, or religious hegemony. In this case those few are generally the people who are people elected or higher to be public servants. They are more powerful than the others, because they use the very law the people have put in place.

      Idealistically social services is suppose to serve society. What can happen is that lines and sides can be drawn. It can be turned into an industry and a means to an end.

      When we think of social services, we remember the movies, when something has happened and the social worker is called, end of story. Right?

Wrong!

      Social meaning people, Serve means to give of ONESELF. It's like saying to give oneself over to help people. It's thinking of someone or a family in this situation more than yourself, it's putting their needs over your own. 

This takes a mature, healthy, and secure person.

     This line can get easily blurred because of human nature, selfishness, and insecurity.

"If one has no control over their own life,motives,heart and thoughts, they will exercise it in the name of "Social Services".

     It takes much objectivity and maturity to stay focused. It takes much more to stand against those whom you work with that do this.

     When this line is crossed it becomes the "Social warfare system". One side says I don't like what you do and I will subdue and punish you by any means necessary. If a parent has not done anything, most parents will still work at getting the result anyway.  "In the best interest." of course. It's like saying it's for the good of the country or empire.

     This warfare has casualties. They are often the children and their parents.

     The victor's are the DA, Gal, Judges, CASA workers, case workers, foster parents, state departments and last but surely not the least the county.

     These people all get what they want. It's recognition because of their insecurity, some NEED to hear a job well done. Others need the "practice" and "conviction".

     The Federal government wonders why Billions are spent and things haven't changed. An industry needs money to keep going. Doesn't it?

      Let's say you throw a pen. The case worker will change into a Javelin the COUNTY attorney calls it a Spear with motives behind it. The "contracted counselor" will say it's a Javelin with an abnormal spin to it and wonder if it has "rocket" tendencies. The Gal will say it's a spear, rocket, and javelin and say "Its in the best interest but I'll have to detonate it"... to protect the children. Though they haven't even checked. But will bill accordingly.

     You sit there with a pen in your hand asking  "How did it turn into all of this."

The  Federal government is paying for a pen and it's been inflated.

     Those that aren't like this NEED to address their peers that have these struggles.

                          We are suppose to be in this together.

  "Some want to leave their mark, but we leave a scar, after healing has taken place you know we were there. This will be constant reminder to never do that again, to any family.

     "A pregnant woman has been told that her baby will be taken from her at birth because she is deemed capable of "emotional abuse", even though psychiatrists treating her say there is no evidence to suggest that she will harm her child in any way.

     Social services' recommendation that the baby should be taken from Fran Lyon, a 22-year-old charity worker who has five A-levels and a degree in neuroscience, was based in part on a letter from a pediatrician she has never met."

     Make no mistake, we are engaged in an epic battle between two incompatible ideologies with fundamentally different views of the rights of the individual and the power of the state, with the future of civilization at stake.

     In studying the problems of children, families, and marriage that are the bedrock of our society, some simple facts emerge from study after study:

• The safest place for a child is with their biological father.

• The safest place for a woman is in her home married to the biological father of her children.

• Men and women are equally violent in domestic relationships.

• "Any country that has tried to create a political solution to human problems has ended up with concentration camps and gulags." (Erin Pizzey)

     Yet radical ideologues have successfully campaigned to pass laws that contravene these findings and act to destroy children, families, and marriages on a previously unimagined scale. No one of us can combat these evils, but standing together we can, and have made a difference.

     These are not battles that will be won overnight and victory will never be complete. But we are turning the tide on repression and darkness.

     The best place for evil to hide is out in the open in the name of Social Services, who would look there?